Self confidence is blocked by thinking! And this is not a joke!
Do you want to access universal confidence? You don’t need to know how because if you say yes, you are already doing the necessary steps like reading through this article or searching the Internet for answers, which will eventually lead you to the gate of the absolute confidence. The NO people are probably finished reading by now, but you never know. As I wrote before, there are plenty of aspects for building self-esteem…
Right now I’ve got another clue, which goes deep inside the topic of self-confidence.
Do you remember a moment when you did something and time passed fast and you didn’t really feel anything except the satisfaction that the job was done or you finished what was necessary to do?
What did you do? The answer is ……nothing, really!!! You just concentrated on doing that work and that’s it!! Ok, what is the point of telling you this?
Read this:
There is a proof that we are thinking too much and that we consider this thinking as normal and good healthy state. But this constant thinking doesn’t help us at all.
Thinking!!!Thinking!!!Thinking!!!
You think too much about everything!!!!!
What for? It is not necessary to think if you don’t have to! It is just another brutal destroyer of vital live energy, which is necessary for self-confidence.
All spiritual teachers or modern speakers say the same thing. For example you may hear something like ” You have to interrupt your pattern” or “you must act now, so don’t leave it till tomorrow” and so on.
All they are trying to say is “just stop thinking about it and do it”. What does self confidence have to do with it? The same thing!!! You are stuck in the past and feel great pain, because you always have thoughts reminding you of what may have happened to you in the past.
When you use that much energy for thinking about this “past crap” you have no energy left to do anything else, and probably feel tired, stressed and unfulfilled.
Now, only one thing you have to practice today is to listen to your mind. Just simply try to listen what is going on in your head. You may put that on the paper and you’ll see.
It may be hard, you say, but if you do nothing and just listen, you will realise you are not thinking and it is simply quiet in your mind. The vital live energy will flow back into your body.
This thinking process is trying to overpower you all the time and unfortunately it frequently wins. But now you know what to do when your confidence issues pop up again. Try to listen. Do not judge the thought – just listen. Soon you will see the difference because thinking will lose its power over you and your emotions. As a result you will lose the fear and get much more energy to stay focused.
I will give you an example:
You are driving a car, listening your music or radio channel and pretty much enjoying the ride. You may even be thinking about some stuff while driving. You spot a car coming to your direction from the opposite site of the route. You just notice the car but don’t think about it. Now the car is just few hundred metres away when you see something happening. Instantly your focus is on the car and you are making some decisions about your driving. You have NO TIME to think what to do!! You are reacting according the situation in order to avoid the crash!!! There is no thinking involved because you are focused on one thing, in this case your own survival. The right thoughts suddenly appear automatically when you need them!!!
Does it make sense? If you are always thinking what you can or cannot do and what consequences it will or will not have, you will never do anything life changing! You will never push the break because you will never know what the right decision is!!!
This applies to everything in your life and not only to dangerous situations. Self confidence is your tool to move on in the right direction. It is not anything you have to think about!!
I would suggest you go to my page www.universalconfidence.com and sign up for free tips and read about the amazing tool I use. It is something that keeps me focused and calm.
I was lucky to find it and trust me that my self confidence and my life flows in full speed energy!!
Hey, great post, very well written. You should post more about this.
Yes it is true what you have written. I was so pleased to read that as I know now I am not the only one to have such experience and feelings. Nice to hear there is something to do about it.
Thank you. I am sure you will be helpful to many people.
Thank you much for this nicely written post.